Curriculum
Vita
Terry
Duane Hargrave
Professor
of Counseling
West
Texas A&M University
WTAMU
Box 60208, Canyon, TX, 79016
(806)
651-3620 thargrave@mail.wtamu.edu
Personal Information
Address:
6902 Elmhurst, Amarillo, Texas 79106
Telephone:
(806)
351-0135
Birth
date:
09/12/56
Marital/Family
Status:
Married
(Sharon), Two Children (Halley Anne, Peter)
Education
Degrees
Degree:
Doctor of Philosophy (08/89)
Institution:
Texas Woman's University, Denton, TX
Major:
Marriage
and Family Therapy
Dissertation: The Development of a Relational
Ethics Scale
Degree:
Master of Arts (05/86)
Institution:
Southwestern Baptist Theological
Seminary, Fort Worth, TX
Major:
Marriage
and Family Counseling
Degree:
Master of Arts (08/84)
Institution:
West Texas State University, Canyon,
TX
Major:
Public
Administration
Thesis:
Administrative Evaluation:
Utilization in the Community College
Degree:
Bachelor of Science (08/79)
Institution:
West Texas State University, Canyon,
TX
Major:
History
Training Programs
Institution:
Family Therapy Institute of
Washington, D.C. (11/87)
Faculty:
Jay Haley and Cloe Madanes
Information:
A forty-four hour training program
in strategic family therapy consisting of seminars, live therapy
sessions,
observation of video tape sessions and discussions.
Institution:
The Institute for Contextual Growth,
Philadelphia, Pennsylvania (07/87, 10/88)
Faculty:
Ivan Boszormenyi-Nagy
Information:
Two thirty hour training blocks in
the Contextual approach to family of origin therapy.
Sessions included seminars, observation and supervision of the
trainee's therapeutic technique.
Publications,
Presentations,
Videotapes, and Grants
Publications
education delivery
methods. The Journal of the Texas
Association for Marriage
and Family Therapy.
9.
Church and Society.
93, 36-43.
Hargrave,
T.D. & Williams, G. (2003). A
contextual therapy model for understanding
emotions.
Marriage and Family: A Christian Journal.
6, 63-71.
Hargrave,
T.D., & Williams, G. (2002). Clinical
implications for a contextual system
model of grief due to
death. Journal of the Texas
Association for Marriage and
Family Therapy.
7, 31-41.
Izat,
J.G., Hargrave, T.D., Brammer, R., & Williams, G. (2001). Using internet
technology to facilitate anonymous
communication in world wide web
delivered multiculturalism in
education courseware. Annual
Proceedings for
the Society for Information
Technology in Teacher Education.
Texas Association for Marriage
and Family Therapy. 5, 13-19.
Hargrave,
T.D. (1999). Commentary on expanding
the discourse of care: Family
constructed biographies of nursing
home residents. Families, Systems &
Health.
17, 487-491.
Hargrave,
T.D. (1999). The work of
forgiveness: Miles to go before we
sleep. Journal
of Marriage and Family: A
Christian Journal. 2, 315-323.
Sells,
J.N. & Hargrave, T.D. (1998).
Forgiveness: A review of the theoretical and
empirical literature. Journal of
Family Therapy. 20,
2, 21-36.
Hargrave,
T.D. (1997). Contextual assessment of
older adults. Journal of the Texas
Association for Marriage and
Family Therapy. 2, 1, 47-62.
Hargrave,
T.D. & Sells, J.N. (1997). The
development of a forgiveness scale. Journal
of Marital and Family Therapy.
23, 1,41-62.
Hargrave,
T.D. (1994). Families and
forgiveness: A theoretical and
therapeutic
framework. The Family Journal.
2, 339-348.
Hargrave,
T.D. (1994). Therapeutic utilization of
video life review. Journal of Family
Therapy. 16, 3,
259-267.
Hargrave,
T.D. & Bomba, A.K. (1993). Further
Validation of the relational ethics scale.
Journal of Marital and Family
Therapy, 19, 292-299.
Hargrave,
T.D., Jennings, G. & Anderson, W.T. (1991). The development of a
relational
ethics scale. Journal of Marital
and Family Therapy, 17, 2, 311-320.
Hargrave,
T.D. (1991). Utilizing inexpensive communication systems:
Building one-way
mirrors for private practice
consultation and supervision. Journal of Marital and
Family Therapy, 17, 1,
89-91.
Hargrave,
T.D. & Anderson, W.T. (1990). Helping older people finish well: A contextual
family therapy approach. Family
Therapy, 23, 1,
9-19.
Anderson,
W.T. & Hargrave, T.D. (1990). Contextual family therapy and older
people:
Building trust in the
intergenerational family. Journal of
Family Therapy, 12, 4,
145-158.
Hargrave, T.D. (2005). Loving
your parents when they can no
longer love you. Grand Rapids, MI:
Zondervan.
Hargrave, T.D. & Pfitzer,
F. (2003). The
new contextual therapy: Guiding the power of give and take. New York: Brunner Routledge.
Hargrave, T.D. (2001). Forgiving
the devil: Restoring relationships in
damaging families. Phoenix:
Zieg, Tucker and Theisen, Publishers.
Hargrave, T.D. & Hanna, S. Eds.
(1997). The aging family:
New visions of theory, practice, and reality.
New York:
Brunner/Mazel.
Hargrave, T.D. (1994). Families
and forgiveness: Healing wounds in the
intergenerational
family. New York: Brunner/Mazel.
Hargrave, T.D. & Anderson, W.T.
(1992). Finishing well: Aging and
reparation in the intergenerational family. New York:
Brunner/Mazel.
C.F. Sori (Eds.), The therapist’s
notebook for integrating spirituality in
counseling: Homework, handouts
and activities. Binghampton, NY:
Haworth
Press.
focused family of origin
therapy. In L. VanderCreek (Ed.), Innovations
in clinical
practice: A source book (Volume
18). Sarasota, FL:
Professional Resource
Press.
Hargrave,
T.D. & Hanna, S. (1997). Aging: A
primer for family therapists. In T.D.
Hargrave & S. Hanna (Eds.), The
aging family: New visions of theory, practice,
and reality. New York:
Brunner/Mazel.
Hargrave,
T.D. & Anderson, W.T. (1997). Finishing well: A contextual family therapy
approach to the aging family. In
T.D. Hargrave & Hanna (Eds.), The
aging
family: New visions of theory,
practice, and reality. New York:
Brunner/Mazel.
Hanna
S. & Hargrave, T.D. (1997). Integrating the process of aging and family
therapy. In T.D. Hargrave & S.
Hanna (Eds.), The aging family: New
visions of
theory, practice, and reality. New
York:
Brunner/Mazel.
Hanna
S., Hargrave, T.D. & Miller, R.B.
(1997). Future directions for
family therapy
with aging families. In T.D.
Hargrave & S. Hanna (Eds.), The
aging family: New
visions of theory, practice, and
reality. New York:
Brunner/Mazel.
Hargrave,
T.D. (1996). Contextual family
therapy. In D. R. Ratliff & L.
Yingling (Eds.),
Reviewing our common body of
knowledge: MFT license exam preparation
manual. pp. 2.1-2.8. Austin, TX: Texas Association for Marriage and
Family
Therapy.
Hargrave, T.D. (2002). [Review of In
the presence of grief: Helping family members resolve death, dying, and
bereavement issues]. Journal of
Marital and Family Therapy, 28, 495.
Hargrave, T.D. (1996). [Review of You
can go home again: Reconnecting with your family].
Journal of Marital and Family Therapy,
22, 412-413.
Hargrave, T.D. (1994). [Review of Making
peace with your adult children]. Journal
of Marital and Family Therapy, 20, 330.
Hargrave, T.D. (1993). [Review of The
intimacy paradox: Personal authority in
the family system]. Journal of
Marital and Family Therapy, 19, 303-304.
Magazine
Articles
Hargrave, T.D. (2003). The alchemy
of caregiving. The high calling of our
daily work:
http://www.thehighcalling.org/Library/ViewLibrary.asp?LibraryID=1696. San Antonio, TX: H.E. Butts Foundation.
Hargrave, T.D. (2002,
September/October). Hard questions: Now
who calls the shots? Modern
Maturity, 45, 5 53.
Hargrave, T.D. (2002,
July/August). Hard questions: What to
do when Dad drinks. Modern Maturity,
45, 4 53.
Hargrave, T.D. (2002,
May/June). Hard questions: In-laws from
hell: What happens when you’re trapped in the middle?
Modern Maturity, 45, 3 32-33.
Hargrave, T.D. (2002,
March/April). Hard questions: After a
suicide, can a family ever be normal again?
Modern Maturity, 45, 2 28-29.
Hargrave, T.D. (2002,
January/February). Hard questions: Has
my mother turned into my child? Modern
Maturity, 45, 1 22-23.
Hargrave, T.D. (2001,
November/December). Hard
questions: Holiday burnout.
Modern Maturity, 44, 6 28-30.
Hargrave, T.D. (2001,
September/October). Hard
questions: Shattered trust.
Modern Maturity, 44, 5 28-30
Hargrave, T.D. (2001,
July/August). Hard questions:
For love of Mom's money. Modern
Maturity, 44, 4 28-30.
Hargrave, T.D. (2001,
May/June). Hard questions:
Who gets all the good stuff? Modern
Maturity, 44, 3 30-32.
Hargrave, T.D. (2001,
March/April). Hard questions:
Who says when it's time to turn in the car
keys? Modern Maturity, 44, 2 28-29.
Hargrave, T.D. (2001,
July/August). Case studies:
The ineffable "us-ness" of
marriage. Psychotherapy Networker,
25, 4 55-61.
Presentations
National
Meetings
Plenary and Keynote Presentations
Hargrave, T.D. (2004, March). The
therapeutic challenges of working
with aging families. Invited
keynote address presented at the International Conference on Aging and
Caregiving hosted by Leren over Leven.
Antwerp, Belgium.
Hargrave, T.D. (2001, May). Caring,
connecting, and contributing:
Embracing the power of the powerless.
Invited keynote addresses presented at the Annual Conference of
the
MetroHealth Medical Center, Caregiving Across the Lifespan: A Multigenerational Perspective. Cleveland, OH.
Hargrave, T.D. (2000, July). The
essential humility of marriage. Keynote
address presented at the 4th
Annual Smart Marriages Conference, Denver, CO.
Hargrave, T.D. (1998, October). Forgiveness
and reconciliation. Keynote address
presented at the 1998
Symposium on Ministry with the Aging, Ashville, North Carolina.
Hargrave, T.D. (1997, March). Forgiveness
in a violent society.
Invited keynote workshop presented at the Annual Conference of the
MetroHealth
Medical Center, Cleveland, OH.
Hargrave, T.D. (1996, April). Love
and trust: Transgenerational healing
of pain. Keynote address presented at the meeting of the National
Conference on Forgiveness in Clinical Practice, Baltimore, Maryland.
Hargrave, T.D. (1992, October). Master’s
Series therapy presentation on
therapy with aging families. Live
therapy session presented to the 50th Annual Conference of the American
Association for Marriage and Family Therapy, Miami, FL.
Hargrave, T.D. (1991, October). Between
generations: Working with aging
families. Keynote address presented
to the 49th Annual Conference of the American Association for Marriage
and
Family Therapy, Dallas, TX.
Workshops,
Seminars, and Poster Sessions
Hargrave, T.D. (2004,
November). Families and forgiveness:
Healing wounds in the intergenerational family. Workshop
presented at Fuller Theological Seminary, Pasadena, CA.
Hargrave, T.D. (2004, July). Caring
for marriages while caring for aging
parents. Workshop presented at the
Annual Smart Marriages Conference, Dallas,TX.
Hargrave, T.D. (2004, June). Invisible
loyalties: New directions in
contextual therapy. Seminar presented
as part of the Psychotherapy Networker Symposium West, Beverly Hills,
CA.
Hargrave, T.D. (2004, June). On
forgiveness and forgiving. Seminar
presented as part of the
Psychotherapy Networker Symposium West, Beverly Hills, CA.
Hargrave, T.D. (2004, March). Contextual
therapy with aging families. Workshop
presented at the Annual
International Milton Erickson Conference on Psychotherapy, Bad Orb,
Germany.
Hargrave, T.D. (2004, March). Contextual
therapy with families: Forgiveness and
marriage. Workshop presented at the
training
institute, Leren over Leven, Antwerp, Belgium.
Hargrave, T. D. (2003,
October). The new contextual therapy:
Guiding the power of give and take.
Workshop presented at the Annual Conference of the American
Association
for Marriage and Family Therapy, Long Beach, CA.
Hargrave, T.D. (2003, June). Contextual
therapy and compassion
fatigue. Invited workshop
presented at the St. Immingard Klinic, Prien Cheimsee, Germany.
Hargrave, T.D. (2003, June). Personality
disorders. Workshop presented to the
Medizinisch-Psychosomatische Klinik Roseneck Staff and Guests, Prien,
Germany.
Hargrave, T.D. (2003, June). Couples
therapy: Interventions. Invited
workshop presented at the
Rehabilitation Hospital for Veterans, Innsbruck, Austria.
Hargrave, T.D. (2003, April). Families and forgiveness: Therapy and
ethics in healing
relationships. Workshop presented
at the 4th Annual Julie Claire Gutterman Memorial Lecture,
Providence, RI.
Hargrave, T.D. (2003, February). Humility, Us-ness and Change. Workshop presented at the University of
Connecticut Medical
School Masters Therapists Workshops, Farmington, CT.
Hargrave, T.D. (2002, October). Working
with damaged caregiving families. Invited
lecture for the Annual Workshop for
the Visiting Nurses Association, Akron, OH.
Hargrave, T.D. (2002, June). The
essentials of contextual therapy. Invited
workshop presented at the St.
Immingard Klinic, Prien Cheimsee, Germany.
Hargrave, T.D. (2002, June). Therapuetic
issues and money. Workshop presented
to the
Medizinisch-Psychosomatische Klinik Roseneck Staff and Guests, Prien,
Germany.
Hargrave, T.D. (2002, June). Forgiveness
and healing family
relationships. Invited workshop
presented at the Rehabilitation Hospital for Veterans, Innsbruck,
Austria.
Hargrave, T.D. (2002, March). On
forgiveness and healing. Invited
workshop presented to the 25th
Annual Conference of the Psychotherapy Networker, Washington, D.C.
Hargrave, T.D. (2001, August). Humility
and couple
"us-ness": Systemic
considerations. Refereed symposium
panel on Contrasting and Comparing Brief Approaches to Couples Therapy. Jeffrey Zeig, Chair. 109th
Annual Convention of the
American Psychological Association, San Francisco, CA.
Hargrave, T.D. (2001, October). Essential
humility: Couples therapy and us-ness. Refereed workshop presented at the 59th
Annual Convention of the American Association for Marriage and Family
Therapy,
Nashville, TN.
Hargrave, T.D. (2000, July). Grief
work and the aging family. Workshop
presented to the Klinik St.
Irmingard Staff and Guests, Prien, Germany.
Hargrave, T.D. (2000, April). Families
and forgiveness: Healing wounds
in the intergenerational family.
Workshop presented at the University of Michigan School of
Social Work
Training Series, Ann Arbor, MI.
Hargrave, T.D. (2000, April). Grief
work and aging families. Workshop
presented at the 23rd
Annual Family Therapy Networker Symposium, Washington, D.C.
Hargrave, T.D. (2000, March). Forgiveness
around the time of death. Workshop
presented at the Visiting Nurses
System session, “You Say Goodbye, I Say Hello.” Akron,
OH.
Hargrave, T.D. (1999, August). Meeting
the challenges of aging families. Week
long workshop presented to the AAMFT
Summer Institutes, Park City, Utah.
Hargrave, T.D. (1999, July). Essential
processes in marital therapy. Workshop
presented to the Klinik St.
Irmingard Staff and Guests, Prien, Germany.
Hargrave, T.D. (1999, July). Essential
processes in the work of
forgiveness and reconciliation.
Workshop presented to the Medizinisch-Psychosomatische Klinik
Roseneck
Staff and Guests, Prien, Germany.
Hargrave, T.D. (1999, July). Stresses
across the family life cylce. Workshop
presented to the CHPPs Conference
(US Military) Garmish, Germany.
Hargrave, T.D. (1999, April). Families
and forgiveness: Healing wounds in the
intergenerational
family. Workshop preseted to for
the Annual Workshop for Pastoral Counselors, Buffalo, New York.
Hargrave, T.D. (1999, March). Finishing
well: Therapy with aging families.
Workshop presented at the 1999 Family Therapy Networker
Symposium,
Washington, D.C.
Hargrave, T.D. (1998, November). Families and forgiveness: Healing wounds in
the
intergenerational family. Workshop
presented at the University of Connecticut Medical School Masters
Therapists
Workshops, Farmington, CT.
Hargrave, T.D. (1998, October). Grieving
well: Dealing with grief and
loss. Workshop presented at the
1998 Symposium on Ministry with the Aging, Ashville, North Carolina.
Hargrave, T.D. (1998, July). Common
sense marriage: Trust is the key. Workshop
presented at the 2nd Annual Smart
Marriages Conference, Washington, D.C.
Hargrave, T. D. & Metcalf, L.
(1998, March). Rewinding the past to
fast forward solutions. Workshop given at the 21st Annual Family
Therapy
Networker Symposium, Washington, D.C.
Hargrave, T.D. (1998, March). Finishing
well: Therapy with aging
families. Workshop given at the
21st Annual Family Therapy Networker Symposium, Washington, D.C.
Hargrave, T.D. (1998, March). Families
and forgiveness: Healing wounds
in the family. Workshop given at
the Annual Conference for the Indiana Association For Marriage and
Family
Therapy, Indianapolis, IN.
Hargrave, T.D. (1997, October). Courage
to grieve. Workshop given at the 12th
Annual National
Symposium on Aging, Ashville, North Carolina.
Hargrave, T.D. (1997,
September). New directions in family
grief and loss. Workshop presented
at the 55th Annual Convention of the American Association of Marriage
and
Family Therapy, Atlanta, Georgia.
Hargrave, T.D. & DiBlasio,
F. (1997, September).
Forgiveness in the aging
intergenerational family. One day
workshop presented at the 55th Annual Convention of the American
Association of
Marriage and Family Therapy, Atlanta, Georgia.
Hargrave, T.D. (1996, October). Healing
emotional wounds in the
intergenerational family. One day
workshop presented to the Eleventh Annual National Symposium on
Ministry with
the Aging, Asheville, North Carolina.
Hargrave, T.D. (1996, March). Therapeutic
uses of forgiveness in
community. Paper presented at the
Mid-Winter Meeting of the American Psychological Association,
Scottsdale,
Arizona.
Hargrave, T.D. (1995, August). The
development of a forgiveness scale. Paper
presented at a suite presentation at
the Annual American Psychological Association Conference, New York, New
York.
Hargrave, T.D., Anderson, W.T.,
& Anderson, R. (1994, November). Families
and forgiveness. One day institute
presented to the 52nd Annual Conference of the American Association for
Marriage and Family Therapy,Chicago, IL.
Hargrave, T.D. (1994, March). Healing
wounds in the intergenerational
family. Workshop presented to the
17th Annual Family Therapy Network Symposium of the Family Therapy
Networker,
Washington, D.C.
Hargrave, T.D. (1993, October). Families
and forgiveness: Healing
intergenerational wounds. Workshop
presented to the 51st Annual Conference of the American Association for
Marriage and Family Therapy, Anaheim, CA.
Hargrave, T.D. (1993, March). Finishing well: Therapy with aging families. Workshop presented to the 16th Annual Family
Therapy Network Symposium of the Family Therapy Networker, Washington,
D.C.
Hargrave, T.D. (1993, March). Families and forgiveness: Healing in the
intergenerational
family. Workshop presented to the
16th Annual Family Therapy Network Symposium of the Family Therapy
Networker,
Washington, D.C.
Hargrave, T.D. (1992, October). Five
ways to help aging families finish
well. Public speech presented to
the 50th Annual Conference of the American Association for Marriage and
Family
Therapy, Miami, FL.
Hargrave, T.D., Hargrave, S.A.,
& Anderson, W.T. (1992,
October). Innovative techniques in
working with aging families.
Workshop institute presented to the 50th Annual Conference of
the
American Association for Marriage and Family Therapy, Miami, FL.
Hargrave, T.D. & Anderson,
W.T. (1991, October).
Finishing strong: Family therapy
with aging families. Workshop
presented to the 49th Annual
Conference of the American Association for Marriage and Family Therapy,
Dallas,
TX.
Hargrave, T.D. & Anderson,
W.T. (1991, October).
Contextual assessment of aging families.
Poster session presented at the 49th Annual
Conference of the American Association for Marriage and Family Therapy,
Dallas,
TX.
Hargrave, T.D. & Anderson,
W.T. (1990, October).
Finishing strong: Family therapy
with aging families. Workshop
institute presented to the 48th
Annual Conference of the American Association for Marriage and Family
Therapy,
Washington, D.C.
Hargrave, T.D. & Anderson,
W.T. (1989, October).
The bridge back home: Family therapy with
older people. Workshop presented to
the 47th Annual Conference of the American Association for Marriage and
Family
Therapy, San Francisco, CA.
Anderson, T.D. & Hargrave,
T.D. (1988, October).
Helping older people finish well: A
comprehensive family therapy model.
Workshop presented to the 46th Annual Conference of the American
Association for Marriage and Family Therapy, New Orleans, LA.
Plenary and Keynote Presentations
Hargrave, T.D. (2003, January). Families and forgiveness: Healing wounds in
the
intergenerational family. Invited
keynote conference workshop for the Texas Association for Marriage and
Family
Therapy, Dallas, TX.
Hargrave, T.D. (2002,
September). Families and
forgiveness: Healing wounds in the intergenerational family. Invited keynote workshop for the Amarillo
Area Association for Marriage and Family Therapy, Amarillo, TX.
Hargrave, T.D. (2001, April). The
essential humility of marriage:
Marriage education. Invited keynote
address presented to the Annual Conference of the Texas Council on
Family
Relations, Dallas, TX.
Hargrave, T.D. (2000, January). What does it mean to grow strong families? Keynote address presented at the Annual
Conference of the Texas Association for Marriage and Family Therapy,
Houston,
TX.
Hargrave, T.D. (1999, December). Finishing well:
Therapy with the intergenerational family.
Keynote workshop presented at the Annual Conference of the South
Carolina Association for Marriage and Family Therapy, Myrtle Beach, SC.
Hargrave, T.D. (1998, March). Families and forgiveness.
Keynote address presented at the Annual Conference of the
Indiana
Association for Marriage and Family Therapy, Indianapolis, IN.
Hargrave, T.D. (1998, January). Working with difficult couples: Dealing with infidelity.
Plenary address presented at the 25th Annual Conference of the
Texas
Association For Marriage and Family Therapy, Dallas, TX.
Hargrave, T.D. (1995, April). The power of forgiveness in the
intergenerational family. Keynote
address presented to the Annual
Meeting of the Missouri AAMFT, Kansas City, MO.
Workshops, Seminars, and Poster
Sessions
Hargrave, T.D. (2000,
December). Family functioning and
the importance of love and trust.
Invited lecture for the Ed Hammer Special Lectureship as a part
of the
Amarillo Pediatric Symposium, Texas Tech University Health Science
Center,
Amarillo, TX.
Hargrave, T.D. (1997,
February). Families and forgiveness:
Healing in the intergenerational family.
Two day workshop presented to the Annual Conference for the
Interfaith
Pastoral Counseling Centre, Kitchener, Ontario.
Hargrave, T.D. & Metcalf, L.
(1997, January). Rewind the past,
fast forward solutions: A family of origin/solution focused model. Workshop institute presented to the Annual
Conference of the Texas Association for Marriage and Family Therapy,
Houston,
TX.
Hargrave, T.D. & Griffin,
A. (1997, January). Therapy
with older adults in the family context. Workshop
presented to the Annual Conference
of the Texas Association for Marriage and Family Therapy, Houston, TX.
Hargrave, T.D. & Griffin,
A. (1996, January). Family
therapy
with older adults: It’s not just for kids anymore. Workshop institute presented to the Annual
Conference of the Texas Association for Marriage and Family Therapy,
Austin,
TX.
Hargrave, T.D. (1995, April). Emotional wellness in the aging family. Day workshop presented to the Retired
Seniors Volunteer Program, Lubbock, TX.
Hargrave, T.D., Nouwen, H.J.M., Van
Amburgh, G.D., & Street, M.B. (1995, March). Aging
and spirituality.
Workshop presented to the Alzheimer’s Association Workshop
Series, Fort
Worth, TX.
Hargrave, T.D. (1995, February). Seizing the opportunities:
Intergenerational family therapy.
Day workshop session presented to the Annual Conference of the
Dallas
Chapter AAMFT, Dallas, TX.
Hargrave, T.D., Anderson, W.T.,
& Anderson, R. (1995,
January). Families and forgiveness:
Healing in the intergenerational family.
Workshop presented to the Annual Conference of the Texas
Association for
Marriage and Family Therapy, Dallas, TX.
Hargrave, T.D. (1994, September). Families and forgiveness:
Healing wounds in the intergenerational family.
Day workshop session presented to The Oaks
of Austin and Austin Association for Marriage and Family Therapy
Conference,
Austin, TX.
Hargrave, T.D. (1994, May). Families and forgiveness: Healing wounds in
the
intergenerational family. Day
workshop session presented at the Abilene Christian University
Conference,
Abilene, TX.
Hargrave, T.D. (1994, March). Emotional wellness in the aging family. Day workshop presented to the Alzheimer’s
Association Workshop Series, Fort Worth, TX.
Hargrave, T.D. & Martin, D. (1994,
January). Distancer/Pursuer marital
relationships. Workshop institute
presented to the Annual
Conference of the Texas Association for Marriage and Family Therapy,
San
Antonio, TX.
Hargrave, T.D. (1993, May). Reparation
in the intergenerational
family. Day workshop presented to
the Regional Conference of the Stormont Vail Hospital, Topeka, KS.
Hargrave, T.D. (1993, May). Finishing well: Counseling with older adults.
Workshop presented to the Adult Services Institute, Social
Services of
Kentucky, Louisville, Kentucky.
Hargrave, T.D. (1993, April). Finishing well: Therapy with aging families. Day workshop presented to the Annual
Conference of the Arkansas Psychological Association Little Rock,
Arkansas.
Hargrave, T.D. & Martin, D. (1993,
January). Distancer/Pursuer marital
relationships. Workshop presented to
the Annual Conference
of the Texas Association for Marriage and Family Therapy, Houston, TX.
Hargrave, T.D. (1992, June). Finishing well: Therapy with aging families. Day workshop presented to the Annual
Conference of the Interfaith Pastoral Institute of the University of
Winnipeg,
Winnipeg, Manitoba, Canada.
Hargrave, T.D. & Anderson,
W.T. (1992, January).
Applications of contextual family therapy.
Workshop presented to the Annual Conference
of the Texas Association for Marriage and Family Therapy, San Antonio,
TX.
Hargrave, T.D. (1991, September). The changing family life
cycle and understanding aging families.
Day workshop presented to the Family Life Education Training
Workshop,
Department of the Air Force, Scott Air force Base, Illinois.
Hargrave, T.D. (1991, March). Finishing well: Therapy with aging families. Workshop presented to the Annual Conference
of the Tennessee Association for Marriage and Family Therapy,
Nashville, TN.
Hargrave, T.D. & Anderson,
W.T. (1991, January).
Finishing strong: Intergenerational
therapy with aging
families. Workshop institute
presented to the Annual Conference of the Texas Association for
Marriage and
Family Therapy, Dallas, TX.
Hargrave, T.D. (1990, February). Sexuality and spirituality: Different sides
of the same coin. Paper presented to
the Annual Conference of
the Mississippi Council on Family Relations, Jackson, MS.
Hargrave, T.D. (1988, January). Family therapy with the elderly in the last
stage of life. Workshop presented to
the Annual Conference
of the Texas Association for Marriage and Family Therapy, San Antonio,
TX.
Hargrave, T.D. (2004, January). Preparing for the empty nest syndrome. Invited presentation to the Amarillo High
School Parent and
Teacher Organization, Amarillo, TX.
Hargrave, T. D. (2003, October). Taking care of caregivers.
Invited workshop for the Texas Commission for the Blind, Texas
Tech
Medical Center, Amarillo, TX.
Hargrave, T.D. (2000, November
20). Preparing for a career in
mental health. Workshop presented
to students at Bonham Middle School’s Career Day, Amarillo, TX.
Hargrave, T.D. (2000, October
23). Sexual health and relationships. Workshop presented to a student orientation
class at Amarillo College, Amarillo, Texas.
Hargrave, T.D. (2000, September
19). Healing family relationships. Workshop presented at Park Central and Park
Place Towers, Amarillo, Texas.
Hargrave, T.D. (2000,
September). Healing family
relationships. Workshop presented
at the Park Central Retirement center.
Amarillo, TX.
Hargrave, T.D. (1998,
September). A developmental approach
to marital therapy. Workshop
presented at the Amarillo Area Association for Marriage and Family
Therapy,
Amarillo, TX.
Hargrave, T.D. (1998, May). Maintaining
couple intimacy. Workshop presented at
the Don Harrington
Cancer Center for Couples with Major Illness. Amarillo, TX.
Hargrave, T.D. (1997, June). Systems
theory and the special needs
family. Workshop presented to the
Amarillo State Center, Amarillo, TX.
Hargrave, T.D. (1997,
February). New assessment and
treatment of grief. Program
presented to the Amarillo Association for Marriage and Family Therapy,
Amarillo, TX.
Hargrave, T.D. (1997,
February). The importance of family
traditions. Program presented to
the PTA Boards of AISD, Amarillo, TX.
Hargrave, T.D. (1996, December). Healing family pain in the changing family. Keynote address given at the annual
supporters meeting of the Family Support Services, Amarillo, TX.
Hargrave, T.D. (1996, May). Emotional wellness in the aging family. Workshop presented for the Seminar for
Issues and Aging, Amarillo, TX.
Hargrave, T.D. (1995, November). Family therapy with aging families. Workshop presented to the Amarillo College
Professional Counselor Series, Amarillo, TX.
Hargrave, T.D. (1995, October). Families and forgiveness.
Workshop for the Jim Smith Lecture Series at Highland Park
Presbyterian
Church, Dallas, TX.
Hargrave, T.D. (1995, August). Depression and the elderly. Workshop presented for St. Anthony’s Hospice,
Amarillo, TX.
Hargrave, T.D. (1995, April). Reflections on family, love, and trust. Speech presented to the Student Government
Last Lecture Series, Amarillo, TX.
Hargrave, T.D. (1994, August). Grief and dysfunctional families. Workshop for the Hospice Training Conference
for the Veteran’s Hospital, Amarillo, TX.
Hargrave, T.D. (1994, January). The aging parent: Coping with life changes. Workshop
presented for Planned Parenthood, Amarillo, TX.
Hargrave, T.D. (1993, February). Review of Reality isn’t what it use to
be. Book review presented for the
Dean’s Book
Review Series, Amarillo College, Amarillo, TX.
Hargrave, T.D. (1992, November). You and your aging parent.
Seminar presented to the Amarillo College Adult Students and
Women's Services, Amarillo, TX.
Hargrave, T.D. (1992, September). The therapeutic work of forgiveness. Workshop presented to the Mental Health
Professionals of Amarillo, Amarillo, TX.
Hargrave, T.D. (1991, November). With understanding comes change. Workshop presented to the Fall Counselor's
Workshop, Amarillo,
TX.
Hargrave, T.D. (1988, March). What are we teaching our children about
violence? Workshop presented to the
Charter Hospital
Workshop Series, Fort Worth, TX.
Sollee, D. (Producer). (1992). Master's
series: Working with aging families
[Videotape]. Washington, D.C.: AAMFT.
Sollee, D. (Producer). (1992). Family
wellness series: Five ways to help
aging families finish well [Videotape]. Washington, D.C.: AAMFT.
Sollee, D. (Producer). (1991). Keynote
Series: Between generations:
Family therapy with aging families
[Videotape]. Washington, D.C.: AAMFT.
Sollee, D. (Producer). (1991). Learning
edge series: Finishing strong: Therapy with aging families [Videotape].
Washington, D.C.: AAMFT.
Crockett, M. (2001).
Marriage and public policy. In
KERA-FM, The people's agenda.
Dallas, TX: KERA.
Neal, E.R. (2001).
Grand
parenting. In KACV-TV, Perspective. Amarillo, TX: KACV.
Neal, E.R. (2001).
Terror at
home. In KACV-TV, Perspective. Amarillo, TX: KACV.
Roberts, D. (1997). I Forgive
You. [Taped Telecast]. New York,
New York: ABC 20/20.
Teague, K. (1994). Interview with
Terry Hargrave, Ph.D. [Taped Telecast].
Amarillo, Texas: KACV Program on
Ethics in America.
Teague, K. (1994). Interview with
Terry Hargrave, Ph.D. [Live Telecast].
Amarillo, Texas: KACV Program on
Children and Divorce.
Teague, K. (1992). Interview with
Terry Hargrave, Ph.D. [Live Telecast].
Amarillo, Texas: KACV
Perspective.
Zahn, P. (1991). Interview with
Terry Hargrave, Ph.D.
[Live Telecast]. New York, New
York: CBS This Morning.
Grant
Awards
Hargrave, T.D. & Brammer, R.
(2001). Determining the
effectiveness of premarital education delivery methods. Grant submitted and to the Attorney General
of the State of Texas from the Family Trust Fund. $54,000.00
Requested.
Grant was approved and funded at $54,000.00.
Hargrave, T.D. (1995). Contextual
Assessment of Aging
Families. Amarillo College Faculty
Grant. $1,523 requested, $1,523 funded.
Hargrave, T.D. (1990). The Family
and Aging: A Correlation of
Intergenerational Family
Health and Life Satisfaction Among Elderly Members.
University of Mississippi Partners' Fund Grant.
$989 requested, $989 funded.
Experience
Institution:
West
Texas A&M University, Canyon, TX
08/00 to present
Position:
Professor
of Counseling
Duties:
Teaching
and research connected with counseling and marriage and family.
Institution:
Amarillo
College, Amarillo, TX
08/91 to 08/00
Position:
Professor
of Psychology
Duties:
Teaching
and research connected with psychology and marriage and family.
Institution:
University
of Mississippi, Oxford, MS
08/89 to 08/91
Position:
Assistant
Professor of Family Relations
Duties:
Teaching
and research connected with the fields of marriage and family, human
sexuality,
and human development.
Institution:
Amarillo
Family Institute, Amarillo, TX
08/95 to present
Position:
LPC,
LMFT, and partner
Duties:
Counseling
with families, couples and individuals.
Institution:
Samaritan
Counseling Center, Amarillo, TX
11/91 to 07/95
Position:
Therapist
Duties:
Counseling
with families, couples and individuals.
Institution:
Consulting
and Counseling Inc., Fort Worth, TX
07/86 - 07/89
Position:
Marriage
and Family Therapist
Duties:
Counseling
with families, couples and individuals.
Other
Experience
Institution:
The
Courtyards at River Park, Fort Worth, TX
01/87 - 05/89
Position:
Director
of Personal Care
Duties:
Directed
a sixty resident personal care facility.
Responsible for compliance with state regulations, supervision
of staff
and family therapy research.
Institution:
Amarillo
College, Amarillo, TX
09/80 - 08/84
Position:
Personnel
Analyst
Duties:
Administration
of compensation plans and affirmative action.
License,
Memberships, Honors and Associations
Licensed
Marriage and Family Therapist, State of Texas, #000364
Licensed
Professional Counselor, State of Texas, #10541
American
Association for Marriage and Family Therapy, Clinical Member
American
Counseling Association, Clinical Member
Texas
Association for Marriage and Family Therapy, Past President
Amarillo
Area Association for Marriage and Family Therapy, Member and Past
President
Amarillo
High School Sandie Hall of Fame, Member