Curriculum Vita
Terry Duane Hargrave
Professor of Marriage and Family Therapy
Fuller Theological Seminary
180 North Oakland Ave., Pasadena, CA, 91101
tdhargrave@aol.com
Personal Information
Address: 34 East Peoria Street, Pasadena, CA 91101
Telephone: (806) 676-1816
Birth date: 09/12/56
Marital/Family Status: Married (Sharon), Two Children (Halley Anne, Peter)
Education
Degrees
Degree: Doctor of Philosophy (08/89)
Institution: Texas Woman's University, Denton, TX
Major: Marriage and Family Therapy
Dissertation: The Development of a Relational Ethics Scale
Degree: Master of Arts (05/86)
Institution: Southwestern Baptist Theological Seminary, Fort Worth, TX
Major: Marriage and Family Counseling
Degree: Master of Arts (08/84)
Institution: West Texas State University, Canyon, TX
Major: Public Administration
Thesis: Administrative Evaluation: Utilization in the Community College
Degree: Bachelor of Science (08/79)
Institution: West Texas State University, Canyon, TX
Major: History
Training Programs
Institution: Family Therapy Institute of Washington, D.C. (11/87)
Faculty: Jay Haley and Cloe Madanes
Information: A forty-four hour training program in strategic family therapy consisting of seminars, live therapy sessions, observation of video tape sessions and discussions.
Institution: The Institute for Contextual Growth, Philadelphia, Pennsylvania (07/87)
Faculty: Ivan Boszormenyi-Nagy
Information: Thirty hour training block in the Contextual approach to family of origin therapy. Sessions included seminars, observation and supervision of the trainee's therapeutic technique.
Publications, Presentations, Interviews, and Grants
Publications
Journal Articles
Froeschle, J.G., Mayorga, M., Castillo, Y. & Hargrave, T. (2008). Strategies to prevent and heal the mental anguish caused by cyberbullying. Middle School Journal. 39, 30-35.
Hargrave, T.D. & Brammer, R. (2006). Communication, systems, and misconduct with adolescent students. Journal of School Public Relations. 2, 181-195.
Hargrave, T.D. & Brammer, R. (2005). Determining the effectiveness of premarital education delivery methods. Journal of the Texas Association for Marriage and Family Therapy. 10, 4-32.
Hargrave, T.D. & McDuff, L. (2004). Caregiving for Alzheimer’s patients: New challenges for the family. Marriage and Family: A Christian Journal. 7, 51-61.
Hargrave, T.D. (2003). Caring, connecting, and contributing: The power caregiving. Church and Society. 93, 36-43.
Hargrave, T.D. & Williams, G. (2003). A contextual therapy model for understanding emotions. Marriage and Family: A Christian Journal. 6, 63-71.
Hargrave, T.D., & Williams, G. (2002). Clinical implications for a contextual system model of grief due to death. Journal of the Texas Association for Marriage and Family Therapy. 7, 31-41.
Izat, J.G., Hargrave, T.D., Brammer, R., & Williams, G. (2001). Using internet technology to facilitate anonymous communication in world wide web delivered multiculturalism in education courseware. Annual Proceedings for the Society for Information Technology in Teacher Education.
Hargrave, T.D. (2000). What does it mean to grow strong families? Journal of the Texas Association for Marriage and Family Therapy. 5, 13-19.
Hargrave, T.D. (1999). Commentary on expanding the discourse of care: Family constructed biographies of nursing home residents. Families, Systems & Health. 17, 487-491.
Hargrave, T.D. (1999). The work of forgiveness: Miles to go before we sleep. Marriage and Family: A Christian Journal. 2, 315-323.
Sells, J.N. & Hargrave, T.D. (1998). Forgiveness: A review of the theoretical and empirical literature. Journal of Family Therapy. 20, 2, 21-36.
Hargrave, T.D. (1997). Contextual assessment of older adults. Journal of the Texas Association for Marriage and Family Therapy. 2, 1, 47-62.
Hargrave, T.D. & Sells, J.N. (1997). The development of a forgiveness scale. Journal of Marital and Family Therapy. 23, 1, 41-62.
Hargrave, T.D. (1994). Families and forgiveness: A theoretical and therapeutic framework. The Family Journal. 2, 339-348.
Hargrave, T.D. (1994). Therapeutic utilization of video life review. Journal of Family Therapy. 16, 3, 259-267.
Hargrave, T.D. & Bomba, A.K. (1993). Further Validation of the relational ethics scale. Journal of Marital and Family Therapy, 19, 292-299.
Hargrave, T.D., Jennings, G. & Anderson, W.T. (1991). The development of a relational ethics scale. Journal of Marital and Family Therapy, 17, 2, 311-320.
Hargrave, T.D. (1991). Utilizing inexpensive communication systems: Building one-way mirrors for private practice consultation and supervision. Journal of Marital and Family Therapy, 17, 1, 89-91.
Hargrave, T.D. & Anderson, W.T. (1990). Helping older people finish well: A contextual family therapy approach. Family Therapy, 23, 1, 9-19.
Anderson, W.T. & Hargrave, T.D. (1990). Contextual family therapy and older people: Building trust in the intergenerational family. Journal of Family Therapy, 12, 4, 145-158.
Books
Hargrave, T.D. (2008). Boomers on the edge: Three realities that will change your life forever. Grand Rapids, MI: Zondervan.
Hargrave, T.D. (2008). Strength and courage for caregivers: 30 Hope-filled morning and evening reflections. Grand Rapids, MI: Zondervan.
Hargrave, T.D. (2005). Loving your parents when they can no longer love you. Grand Rapids, MI: Zondervan.
Hargrave, T.D. & Pfitzer, F. (2003). The new contextual therapy: Guiding the power of give and take. New York: Brunner Routledge.
Hargrave, T.D. (2001). Forgiving the devil: Restoring relationships in damaging families. Phoenix: Zieg, Tucker and Theisen, Publishers.
Hargrave, T.D. (2000). The essential humility of marriage: Honoring the third identity in couples therapy. Phoenix: Zieg, Tucker, and Theisen Publishers.
Hargrave, T.D. & Hanna, S. Eds. (1997). The aging family: New visions of theory, practice, and reality. New York: Brunner/Mazel.
Hargrave, T.D. (1994). Families and forgiveness: Healing wounds in the intergenerational family. New York: Brunner/Mazel.
Hargrave, T.D. & Anderson, W.T. (1992). Finishing well: Aging and reparation in the intergenerational family. New York: Brunner/Mazel.
Chapters
Hargrave, T.D. & Williams, G.J. (2006). Developing forgiveness. In K. B. Helmeke and C. F.
Sori (Eds.) The therspist’s notebook for integrating spirituality in counseling. pp. 113-126. New York: The Hayworth Press.
Hargrave, T. D. & McDuff, L. (2005). Expanding your income and practice by writing for the popular media. In S. M. Harris, D. C. Ivey and R. A. Bean (Eds.) A practice that works: Strategies to compliment your stand alone therapy practice. pp. 75-82. New York: Routledge.
Hargrave, T.D. & Metcalf, L. (2000). Rewind the past, fast forward solutions: Solution focused family of origin therapy. In L. VanderCreek (Ed.), Innovations in clinical practice: A source book (Volume 18). Sarasota, FL: Professional Resource Press.
Hargrave, T.D. & Hanna, S. (1997). Aging: A primer for family therapists. In T.D. Hargrave & S. Hanna (Eds.), The aging family: New visions of theory, practice, and reality. New York: Brunner/Mazel.
Hargrave, T.D. & Anderson, W.T. (1997). Finishing well: A contextual family therapy approach to the aging family. In T.D. Hargrave & Hanna (Eds.), The aging family: New visions of theory, practice, and reality. New York: Brunner/Mazel.
Hanna S. & Hargrave, T.D. (1997). Integrating the process of aging and family therapy. In T.D. Hargrave & S. Hanna (Eds.), The aging family: New visions of theory, practice, and reality. New York: Brunner/Mazel.
Hanna S., Hargrave, T.D. & Miller, R.B. (1997). Future directions for family therapy with aging families. In T.D. Hargrave & S. Hanna (Eds.), The aging family: New visions of theory, practice, and reality. New York: Brunner/Mazel.
Hargrave, T.D. (1996). Contextual family therapy. In D. R. Ratliff & L. Yingling (Eds.), Reviewing our common body of knowledge: MFT license exam preparation manual. pp. 2.1-2.8. Austin, TX: Texas Association for Marriage and Family Therapy.
Book Reviews
Hargrave, T.D. (2002). [Review of In the presence of grief: Helping family members resolve death, dying, and bereavement issues]. Journal of Marital and Family Therapy, 28, 495.
Hargrave, T.D. (1996). [Review of You can go home again: Reconnecting with your family]. Journal of Marital and Family Therapy, 22, 412-413.
Hargrave, T.D. (1994). [Review of Making peace with your adult children]. Journal of Marital and Family Therapy, 20, 330.
Hargrave, T.D. (1993). [Review of The intimacy paradox: Personal authority in the family system]. Journal of Marital and Family Therapy, 19, 303-304.
Magazine Articles
Hargrave, T.D. (2006, July/August). Case studies: Failure to launch. Psychotherapy Networker, 30, 79-83.
Hargrave, T.D. (2005). The race for happiness. The high calling of our daily work:http://www.thehighcalling.org/Library/ViewLibrary.asp?LibraryID=2925. San Antonio, TX: H.E. Butts Foundation.
Hargrave, T.D. (2005). Folded, mutilated, and bent out of shape. The high calling of our daily work:http://www.thehighcalling.org/Library/ViewLibrary.asp?LibraryID=2751. San Antonio, TX: H.E. Butts Foundation.
Hargrave, T.D. (2003). The alchemy of caregiving. The high calling of our daily work: www.thehighcalling.org/Library/ViewLibrary.asp. San Antonio, TX: H.E. Butts Foundation.
Hargrave, T.D. (2002, September/October). Hard questions: Now who calls the shots? Modern Maturity, 45, 5 53.
Hargrave, T.D. (2002, July/August). Hard questions: What to do when Dad drinks. Modern Maturity, 45, 4 53.
Hargrave, T.D. (2002, May/June). Hard questions: In-laws from hell: What happens when you’re trapped in the middle? Modern Maturity, 45, 3 32-33.
Hargrave, T.D. (2002, March/April). Hard questions: After a suicide, can a family ever be normal again? Modern Maturity, 45, 2 28-29.
Hargrave, T.D. (2002, January/February). Hard questions: Has my mother turned into my child? Modern Maturity, 45, 1 22-23.
Hargrave, T.D. (2001, November/December). Hard questions: Holiday burnout. Modern Maturity, 44, 6 28-30.
Hargrave, T.D. (2001, September/October). Hard questions: Shattered trust. Modern Maturity, 44, 5 28-30
Hargrave, T.D. (2001, July/August). Hard questions: For love of Mom's money. Modern Maturity, 44, 4 28-30.
Hargrave, T.D. (2001, May/June). Hard questions: Who gets all the good stuff? Modern Maturity, 44, 3 30-32.
Hargrave, T.D. (2001, March/April). Hard questions: Who says when it's time to turn in the car keys? Modern Maturity, 44, 2 28-29.
Hargrave, T.D. (2001, July/August). Case studies: The ineffable "us-ness" of marriage. Psychotherapy Networker, 25, 4 55-61.
Presentations
National Meetings
Plenary and Keynote Presentations
Hargrave, T.D. (2005, July). The challenge of the decade. Invited keynote address to the Annual Smart Marriages Conference, Dallas, TX.
Hargrave, T.D. (2004, March). The therapeutic challenges of working with aging families. Invited keynote address presented at the International Conference on Aging and Caregiving hosted by Leren over Leven. Antwerp, Belgium.
Hargrave, T.D. (2001, May). Caring, connecting, and contributing: Embracing the power of the powerless. Invited keynote addresses presented at the Annual Conference of the MetroHealth Medical Center, Caregiving Across the Lifespan: A Multigenerational Perspective. Cleveland, OH.
Hargrave, T.D. (2000, July). The essential humility of marriage. Keynote address presented at the 4th Annual Smart Marriages Conference, Denver, CO.
Hargrave, T.D. (1998, October). Forgiveness and reconciliation. Keynote address presented at the 1998 Symposium on Ministry with the Aging, Ashville, North Carolina.
Hargrave, T.D. (1997, March). Forgiveness in a violent society. Invited keynote workshop presented at the Annual Conference of the MetroHealth Medical Center, Cleveland, OH.
Hargrave, T.D. (1996, April). Love and trust: Transgenerational healing of pain. Keynote address presented at the meeting of the National Conference on Forgiveness in Clinical Practice, Baltimore, Maryland.
Hargrave, T.D. (1992, October). Master’s Series therapy presentation on therapy with aging families. Live therapy session presented to the 50th Annual Conference of the American Association for Marriage and Family Therapy, Miami, FL.
Hargrave, T.D. (1991, October). Between generations: Working with aging families. Keynote address presented to the 49th Annual Conference of the American Association for Marriage and Family Therapy, Dallas, TX.
National Meetings
Workshops, Seminars, and Poster Sessions
Hargrave, T.D. (2006, March). Caregiving in the new century. Seminar presented as part of the Psychotherapy Networker Symposium, Washington, D. C.
Hargrave, T.D. (2005, October). New developments in contextual therapy: Supervision of technique. Workshop presented at the training institute, Leren over Leven, Antwerp, Belgium.
Hargrave, T.D. (2005, October). Contextual therapy and the therapeutic work of forgiveness. Workshop presented at the University at Voorburg sponsored by Leren over Leven, Voorburg, Netherlands.
Hargrave, T.D. (2005, September). Loving your parents through the job of caregiving. Workshop presented as a part of the American Association of Christian Counselors World Convention, Nashville, Tennessee.
Hargrave, T.D. (2005, October). Contextual therapy and guiding the power of give and take. Workshop presented at the regional congress sponsored by Leren over Leven, Antwerp, Belgium.
Hargrave, T.D. (2005, July). The new contextual approach. Invited workshop presented at the Rehabilitation Hospital for Veterans, Innsbruck, Austria.
Hargrave, T.D. (2005, July). Contextual clinical supervision. Workshop presented to the Klinik St. Irmingard Staff and Guests, Prien, Germany.
Hargrave, T.D. (2005, July). Families and forgiveness: Healing wounds in the family. Workshop presented at the Seminary sponsored by Colombo, Bozen, Italy.
Hargrave, T.D. (2005, March). Caregiving in the 21st century. Seminar presented as part of the Psychotherapy Networker Symposium, Washington, D. C.
Hargrave, T.D. (2004, July). Caring for marriages while caring for aging parents. Workshop presented at the Annual Smart Marriages Conference, Dallas, TX.
Hargrave, T.D. (2004, June). Invisible loyalties: New directions in contextual therapy. Seminar presented as part of the Psychotherapy Networker Symposium West, Beverly Hills, CA.
Hargrave, T.D. (2004, June). On forgiveness and forgiving. Seminar presented as part of the Psychotherapy Networker Symposium West, Beverly Hills, CA.
Hargrave, T.D. (2004, March). Contextual therapy with aging families. Workshop presented at the Annual International Milton Erickson Conference on Psychotherapy, Bad Orb, Germany.
Hargrave, T.D. (2004, March). Contextual therapy with families: Forgiveness and marriage. Workshop presented at the training institute, Leren over Leven, Antwerp, Belgium.
Hargrave, T. D. (2003, October). The new contextual therapy: Guiding the power of give and take. Workshop presented at the Annual Conference of the American Association for Marriage and Family Therapy, Long Beach, CA.
Hargrave, T.D. (2003, June). Contextual therapy and compassion fatigue. Invited workshop presented at the St. Immingard Klinik, Prien Cheimsee, Germany.
Hargrave, T.D. (2003, June). Personality disorders. Workshop presented to the Medizinisch-Psychosomatische Klinik Roseneck Staff and Guests, Prien, Germany.
Hargrave, T.D. (2003, June). Couples therapy: Interventions. Invited workshop presented at the Rehabilitation Hospital for Veterans, Innsbruck, Austria.
Hargrave, T.D. (2003, April). Families and forgiveness: Therapy and ethics in healing relationships. Workshop presented at the 4th Annual Julie Claire Gutterman Memorial Lecture, Providence, RI.
Hargrave, T.D. (2003, February). Humility, us-ness and change. Workshop presented at the University of Connecticut Medical School Masters Therapists Workshops, Farmington, CT.
Hargrave, T.D. (2002, October). Working with damaged caregiving families. Invited lecture for the Annual Workshop for the Visiting Nurses Association, Akron, OH.
Hargrave, T.D. (2002, June). The essentials of contextual therapy. Invited workshop presented at the St. Immingard Klinik, Prien Cheimsee, Germany.
Hargrave, T.D. (2002, June). Therapeutic issues and money. Workshop presented to the Medizinisch-Psychosomatische Klinik Roseneck Staff and Guests, Prien, Germany.
Hargrave, T.D. (2002, June). Forgiveness and healing family relationships. Invited workshop presented at the Rehabilitation Hospital for Veterans, Innsbruck, Austria.
Hargrave, T.D. (2002, March). On forgiveness and healing. Invited workshop presented to the 25th Annual Conference of the Psychotherapy Networker, Washington, D.C.
Hargrave, T.D. (2001, August). Humility and couple "us-ness": Systemic considerations. Refereed symposium panel on Contrasting and Comparing Brief Approaches to Couples Therapy. Jeffrey Zeig, Chair. 109th Annual Convention of the American Psychological Association, San Francisco, CA.
Hargrave, T.D. (2001, October). Essential humility: Couples therapy and us-ness. Refereed workshop presented at the 59th Annual Convention of the American Association for Marriage and Family Therapy, Nashville, TN.
Hargrave, T.D. (2000, July). Grief work and the aging family. Workshop presented to the Klinik St. Irmingard Staff and Guests, Prien, Germany.
Hargrave, T.D. (2000, April). Families and forgiveness: Healing wounds in the intergenerational family. Workshop presented at the University of Michigan School of Social Work Training Series, Ann Arbor, MI.
Hargrave, T.D. (2000, April). Grief work and aging families. Workshop presented at the 23rd Annual Family Therapy Networker Symposium, Washington, D.C.
Hargrave, T.D. (2000, March). Forgiveness around the time of death. Workshop presented at the Visiting Nurses System session, “You Say Goodbye, I Say Hello.” Akron, OH.
Hargrave, T.D. (1999, August). Meeting the challenges of aging families. Week long workshop presented to the AAMFT Summer Institutes, Park City, Utah.
Hargrave, T.D. (1999, July). Essential processes in marital therapy. Workshop presented to the Klinik St. Irmingard Staff and Guests, Prien, Germany.
Hargrave, T.D. (1999, July). Essential processes in the work of forgiveness and reconciliation. Workshop presented to the Medizinisch-Psychosomatische Klinik Roseneck Staff and Guests, Prien, Germany.
Hargrave, T.D. (1999, July). Stresses across the family life cycle. Workshop presented to the CHPPs Conference (US Military) Garmish, Germany.
Hargrave, T.D. (1999, April). Families and forgiveness: Healing wounds in the intergenerational family. Workshop presented to for the Annual Workshop for Pastoral Counselors, Buffalo, New York.
Hargrave, T.D. (1999, March). Finishing well: Therapy with aging families. Workshop presented at the 1999 Family Therapy Networker Symposium, Washington, D.C.
Hargrave, T.D. (1998, November). Families and forgiveness: Healing wounds in the intergenerational family. Workshop presented at the University of Connecticut Medical School Masters Therapists Workshops, Farmington, CT.
Hargrave, T.D. (1998, October). Grieving well: Dealing with grief and loss. Workshop presented at the 1998 Symposium on Ministry with the Aging, Ashville, North Carolina.
Hargrave, T.D. (1998, July). Common sense marriage: Trust is the key. Workshop presented at the 2nd Annual Smart Marriages Conference, Washington, D.C.
Hargrave, T. D. & Metcalf, L. (1998, March). Rewinding the past to fast forward solutions. Workshop given at the 21st Annual Family Therapy Networker Symposium, Washington, D.C.
Hargrave, T.D. (1998, March). Finishing well: Therapy with aging families. Workshop given at the 21st Annual Family Therapy Networker Symposium, Washington, D.C.
Hargrave, T.D. (1998, March). Families and forgiveness: Healing wounds in the family. Workshop given at the Annual Conference for the Indiana Association For Marriage and Family Therapy, Indianapolis, IN.
Hargrave, T.D. (1997, October). Courage to grieve. Workshop given at the 12th Annual National Symposium on Aging, Ashville, North Carolina.
Hargrave, T.D. (1997, September). New directions in family grief and loss. Workshop presented at the 55th Annual Convention of the American Association of Marriage and Family Therapy, Atlanta, Georgia.
Hargrave, T.D. & DiBlasio, F. (1997, September). Forgiveness in the aging intergenerational family. One day workshop presented at the 55th Annual Convention of the American Association of Marriage and Family Therapy, Atlanta, Georgia.
Hargrave, T.D. (1996, October). Healing emotional wounds in the intergenerational family. One day workshop presented to the Eleventh Annual National Symposium on Ministry with the Aging, Asheville, North Carolina.
Hargrave, T.D. (1996, March). Therapeutic uses of forgiveness in community. Paper presented at the Mid-Winter Meeting of the American Psychological Association, Scottsdale, Arizona.
Hargrave, T.D. (1995, August). The development of a forgiveness scale. Paper presented at a suite presentation at the Annual American Psychological Association Conference, New York, New York.
Hargrave, T.D., Anderson, W.T., & Anderson, R. (1994, November). Families and forgiveness. One day institute presented to the 52nd Annual Conference of the American Association for Marriage and Family Therapy, Chicago, IL.
Hargrave, T.D. (1994, March). Healing wounds in the intergenerational family. Workshop presented to the 17th Annual Family Therapy Network Symposium of the Family Therapy Networker, Washington, D.C.
Hargrave, T.D. (1993, October). Families and forgiveness: Healing intergenerational wounds. Workshop presented to the 51st Annual Conference of the American Association for Marriage and Family Therapy, Anaheim, CA.
Hargrave, T.D. (1993, March). Finishing well: Therapy with aging families. Workshop presented to the 16th Annual Family Therapy Network Symposium of the Family Therapy Networker, Washington, D.C.
Hargrave, T.D. (1993, March). Families and forgiveness: Healing in the intergenerational family. Workshop presented to the 16th Annual Family Therapy Network Symposium of the Family Therapy Networker, Washington, D.C.
Hargrave, T.D. (1992, October). Five ways to help aging families finish well. Public speech presented to the 50th Annual Conference of the American Association for Marriage and Family Therapy, Miami, FL.
Hargrave, T.D., Hargrave, S.A., & Anderson, W.T. (1992, October). Innovative techniques in working with aging families. Workshop institute presented to the 50th Annual Conference of the American Association for Marriage and Family Therapy, Miami, FL.
Hargrave, T.D. & Anderson, W.T. (1991, October). Finishing strong: Family therapy with aging families. Workshop presented to the 49th Annual Conference of the American Association for Marriage and Family Therapy, Dallas, TX.
Hargrave, T.D. & Anderson, W.T. (1991, October). Contextual assessment of aging families. Poster session presented at the 49th Annual Conference of the American Association for Marriage and Family Therapy, Dallas, TX.
Hargrave, T.D. & Anderson, W.T. (1990, October). Finishing strong: Family therapy with aging families. Workshop institute presented to the 48th Annual Conference of the American Association for Marriage and Family Therapy, Washington, D.C.
Hargrave, T.D. & Anderson, W.T. (1989, October). The bridge back home: Family therapy with older people. Workshop presented to the 47th Annual Conference of the American Association for Marriage and Family Therapy, San Francisco, CA.
Anderson, T.D. & Hargrave, T.D. (1988, October). Helping older people finish well: A comprehensive family therapy model. Workshop presented to the 46th Annual Conference of the American Association for Marriage and Family Therapy, New Orleans, LA.
Regional Meetings
Plenary and Keynote Presentations
Hargrave, T.D. (2006, April). Changing people through relationships: The contextual model of therapy. Seminar presented at the 22nd Annual Waugh Counseling Seminar, Canyon, TX.
Hargrave, T.D. (2006, March). Contextual therapy and forgiveness. Workshop presented to the Kansas Association for Marriage and Family Therapy, Kansas City, KS.
Hargrave, T.D. (2004, November). Families and forgiveness: Healing wounds in the intergenerational family. Workshop presented at Fuller Theological Seminary, Pasadena, CA.
Hargrave, T.D. (2003, January). Families and forgiveness: Healing wounds in the intergenerational family. Invited keynote conference workshop for the Texas Association for Marriage and Family Therapy, Dallas, TX.
Hargrave, T.D. (2002, September). Families and forgiveness: Healing wounds in the intergenerational family. Invited keynote workshop for the Amarillo Area Association for Marriage and Family Therapy, Amarillo, TX.
Hargrave, T.D. (2001, April). The essential humility of marriage: Marriage education. Invited keynote address presented to the Annual Conference of the Texas Council on Family Relations, Dallas, TX.
Hargrave, T.D. (2000, January). What does it mean to grow strong families? Keynote address presented at the Annual Conference of the Texas Association for Marriage and Family Therapy, Houston, TX.
Hargrave, T.D. (1999, December). Finishing well: Therapy with the intergenerational family. Keynote workshop presented at the Annual Conference of the South Carolina Association for Marriage and Family Therapy, Myrtle Beach, SC.
Hargrave, T.D. (1998, March). Families and forgiveness. Keynote address presented at the Annual Conference of the Indiana Association for Marriage and Family Therapy, Indianapolis, IN.
Hargrave, T.D. (1998, January). Working with difficult couples: Dealing with infidelity. Plenary address presented at the 25th Annual Conference of the Texas Association For Marriage and Family Therapy, Dallas, TX.
Hargrave, T.D. (1995, April). The power of forgiveness in the intergenerational family. Keynote address presented to the Annual Meeting of the Missouri AAMFT, Kansas City, MO.
Regional Meetings
Workshops, Seminars, and Poster Sessions
Hargrave, T.D. (2006, May). The new contextual therapy: Guiding the power of give and take. Invited presentation to the Texas Association for Marriage and Family Therapy, Austin, TX.
Hargrave, T.D. (2005, October). Honoring the “Us” in couples therapy. Workshop presented to the Samaritan Pastoral Counseling Center Regional Conference, Lancaster, Pennsylvania.
Hargrave, T.D. (2005, August). Clinical strategies for bringing caregiving together. Workshop presented for the Professional Workshop Series sponsored by Park Center, Fort Wayne, Indiana.
Hargrave, T.D. (2000, December). Family functioning and the importance of love and trust. Invited lecture for the Ed Hammer Special Lectureship as a part of the Amarillo Pediatric Symposium, Texas Tech University Health Science Center, Amarillo, TX.
Hargrave, T.D. (1997, February). Families and forgiveness: Healing in the intergenerational family. Two day workshop presented to the Annual Conference for the Interfaith Pastoral Counseling Centre, Kitchener, Ontario.
Hargrave, T.D. & Metcalf, L. (1997, January). Rewind the past, fast forward solutions: A family of origin/solution focused model. Workshop institute presented to the Annual Conference of the Texas Association for Marriage and Family Therapy, Houston, TX.
Hargrave, T.D. & Griffin, A. (1997, January). Therapy with older adults in the family context. Workshop presented to the Annual Conference of the Texas Association for Marriage and Family Therapy, Houston, TX.
Hargrave, T.D. & Griffin, A. (1996, January). Family therapy with older adults: It’s not just for kids anymore. Workshop institute presented to the Annual Conference of the Texas Association for Marriage and Family Therapy, Austin, TX.
Hargrave, T.D. (1995, April). Emotional wellness in the aging family. Day workshop presented to the Retired Seniors Volunteer Program, Lubbock, TX.
Hargrave, T.D., Nouwen, H.J.M., Van Amburgh, G.D., & Street, M.B. (1995, March). Aging and spirituality. Workshop presented to the Alzheimer’s Association Workshop Series, Fort Worth, TX.
Hargrave, T.D. (1995, February). Seizing the opportunities: Intergenerational family therapy. Day workshop session presented to the Annual Conference of the Dallas Chapter AAMFT, Dallas, TX.
Hargrave, T.D., Anderson, W.T., & Anderson, R. (1995, January). Families and forgiveness: Healing in the intergenerational family. Workshop presented to the Annual Conference of the Texas Association for Marriage and Family Therapy, Dallas, TX.
Hargrave, T.D. (1994, September). Families and forgiveness: Healing wounds in the intergenerational family. Day workshop session presented to The Oaks of Austin and Austin Association for Marriage and Family Therapy Conference, Austin, TX.
Hargrave, T.D. (1994, May). Families and forgiveness: Healing wounds in the intergenerational family. Day workshop session presented at the Abilene Christian University Conference, Abilene, TX.
Hargrave, T.D. (1994, March). Emotional wellness in the aging family. Day workshop presented to the Alzheimer’s Association Workshop Series, Fort Worth, TX.
Hargrave, T.D. & Martin, D. (1994, January). Distancer/Pursuer marital relationships. Workshop institute presented to the Annual Conference of the Texas Association for Marriage and Family Therapy, San Antonio, TX.
Hargrave, T.D. (1993, May). Reparation in the intergenerational family. Day workshop presented to the Regional Conference of the Stormont Vail Hospital, Topeka, KS.
Hargrave, T.D. (1993, May). Finishing well: Counseling with older adults. Workshop presented to the Adult Services Institute, Social Services of Kentucky, Louisville, Kentucky.
Hargrave, T.D. (1993, April). Finishing well: Therapy with aging families. Day workshop presented to the Annual Conference of the Arkansas Psychological Association Little Rock, Arkansas.
Hargrave, T.D. & Martin, D. (1993, January). Distancer/Pursuer marital relationships. Workshop presented to the Annual Conference of the Texas Association for Marriage and Family Therapy, Houston, TX.
Hargrave, T.D. (1992, June). Finishing well: Therapy with aging families. Day workshop presented to the Annual Conference of the Interfaith Pastoral Institute of the University of Winnipeg, Winnipeg, Manitoba, Canada.
Hargrave, T.D. & Anderson, W.T. (1992, January). Applications of contextual family therapy. Workshop presented to the Annual Conference of the Texas Association for Marriage and Family Therapy, San Antonio, TX.
Hargrave, T.D. (1991, September). The changing family life cycle and understanding aging families. Day workshop presented to the Family Life Education Training Workshop, Department of the Air Force, Scott Air force Base, Illinois.
Hargrave, T.D. (1991, March). Finishing well: Therapy with aging families. Workshop presented to the Annual Conference of the Tennessee Association for Marriage and Family Therapy, Nashville, TN.
Hargrave, T.D. & Anderson, W.T. (1991, January). Finishing strong: Intergenerational therapy with aging families. Workshop institute presented to the Annual Conference of the Texas Association for Marriage and Family Therapy, Dallas, TX.
Hargrave, T.D. (1990, February). Sexuality and spirituality: Different sides of the same coin. Paper presented to the Annual Conference of the Mississippi Council on Family Relations, Jackson, MS.
Hargrave, T.D. (1988, January). Family therapy with the elderly in the last stage of life. Workshop presented to the Annual Conference of the Texas Association for Marriage and Family Therapy, San Antonio, TX.
Local Meetings
Hargrave, T.D. (2006, May). Loving your parents when they can no longer love you. Invited presentation to the North Texas Area Agency on Aging Caregiver Conference, Witchita Falls, TX.
Hargrave, T.D. (2005, November). Caring for aging parents. Invited presentation at the Panhandle Area Agency on Aging Caregiver Conference, Amarillo, TX.
Hargrave, T.D. (2004, January). Preparing for the empty nest syndrome. Invited presentation to the Amarillo High School Parent and Teacher Organization, Amarillo, TX.
Hargrave, T. D. (2003, October). Taking care of caregivers. Invited workshop for the Texas Commission for the Blind, Texas Tech Medical Center, Amarillo, TX.
Hargrave, T.D. (2000, November 20). Preparing for a career in mental health. Workshop presented to students at Bonham Middle School’s Career Day, Amarillo, TX.
Hargrave, T.D. (2000, October 23). Sexual health and relationships. Workshop presented to a student orientation class at Amarillo College, Amarillo, Texas.
Hargrave, T.D. (2000, September 19). Healing family relationships. Workshop presented at Park Central and Park Place Towers, Amarillo, Texas.
Hargrave, T.D. (2000, September). Healing family relationships. Workshop presented at the Park Central Retirement center. Amarillo, TX.
Hargrave, T.D. (1998, September). A developmental approach to marital therapy. Workshop presented at the Amarillo Area Association for Marriage and Family Therapy, Amarillo, TX.
Hargrave, T.D. (1998, May). Maintaining couple intimacy. Workshop presented at the Don Harrington Cancer Center for Couples with Major Illness. Amarillo, TX.
Hargrave, T.D. (1997, June). Systems theory and the special needs family. Workshop presented to the Amarillo State Center, Amarillo, TX.
Hargrave, T.D. (1997, February). New assessment and treatment of grief. Program presented to the Amarillo Association for Marriage and Family Therapy, Amarillo, TX.
Hargrave, T.D. (1997, February). The importance of family traditions. Program presented to the PTA Boards of AISD, Amarillo, TX.
Hargrave, T.D. (1996, December). Healing family pain in the changing family. Keynote address given at the annual supporters meeting of the Family Support Services, Amarillo, TX.
Hargrave, T.D. (1996, May). Emotional wellness in the aging family. Workshop presented for the Seminar for Issues and Aging, Amarillo, TX.
Hargrave, T.D. (1995, November). Family therapy with aging families. Workshop presented to the Amarillo College Professional Counselor Series, Amarillo, TX.
Hargrave, T.D. (1995, October). Families and forgiveness. Workshop for the Jim Smith Lecture Series at Highland Park Presbyterian Church, Dallas, TX.
Hargrave, T.D. (1995, August). Depression and the elderly. Workshop presented for St. Anthony’s Hospice, Amarillo, TX.
Hargrave, T.D. (1995, April). Reflections on family, love, and trust. Speech presented to the Student Government Last Lecture Series, Amarillo, TX.
Hargrave, T.D. (1994, August). Grief and dysfunctional families. Workshop for the Hospice Training Conference for the Veteran’s Hospital, Amarillo, TX.
Hargrave, T.D. (1994, January). The aging parent: Coping with life changes. Workshop presented for Planned Parenthood, Amarillo, TX.
Hargrave, T.D. (1993, February). Review of Reality isn’t what it use to be. Book review presented for the Dean’s Book Review Series, Amarillo College, Amarillo, TX.
Hargrave, T.D. (1992, November). You and your aging parent. Seminar presented to the Amarillo College Adult Students and Women's Services, Amarillo, TX.
Hargrave, T.D. (1992, September). The therapeutic work of forgiveness. Workshop presented to the Mental Health Professionals of Amarillo, Amarillo, TX.
Hargrave, T.D. (1991, November). With understanding comes change. Workshop presented to the Fall Counselor's Workshop, Amarillo, TX.
Hargrave, T.D. (1988, March). What are we teaching our children about violence? Workshop presented to the Charter Hospital Workshop Series, Fort Worth, TX.
Television Interviews
Sawyer, D. (2006). Interview with Terry Hargrave, Ph.D. [Live Telecast]. New York, New York: ABC Good Morning America.
Smith, H. (2005). Interview with Terry Hargrave, Ph.D. [Live Telecast]. New York, New York: CBS Early Morning.
Crockett, M. (2001). Marriage and public policy. In KERA-FM, The People's Agenda. Dallas, TX: KERA.
Neal, E.R. (2001). Grand parenting. In KACV-TV, Perspective. Amarillo, TX: KACV.
Neal, E.R. (2001). Terror at home. In KACV-TV, Perspective. Amarillo, TX: KACV.
Roberts, D. (1997). I Forgive You. [Taped Telecast]. New York, New York: ABC 20/20.
Teague, K. (1994). Interview with Terry Hargrave, Ph.D. [Taped Telecast]. Amarillo, Texas: KACV Program on Ethics in America.
Teague, K. (1994). Interview with Terry Hargrave, Ph.D. [Live Telecast]. Amarillo, Texas: KACV Program on Children and Divorce.
Teague, K. (1992). Interview with Terry Hargrave, Ph.D. [Live Telecast]. Amarillo, Texas: KACV Perspective.
Zahn, P. (1991). Interview with Terry Hargrave, Ph.D. [Live Telecast]. New York, New York: CBS This Morning.
Grant Awards
Hargrave, T.D. & Brammer, R. (2001). Determining the effectiveness of premarital education delivery methods. Grant submitted and to the Attorney General of the State of Texas from the Family Trust Fund. $54,000.00 Requested. Grant was approved and funded at $54,000.00.
Hargrave, T.D. (1995). Contextual Assessment of Aging Families. Amarillo College Faculty Grant. $1,523 requested, $1,523 funded.
Hargrave, T.D. (1990). The Family and Aging: A Correlation of Intergenerational Family Health and Life Satisfaction Among Elderly Members. University of Mississippi Partners' Fund Grant. $989 requested, $989 funded.
Experience
Academic Experience
Institution: Fuller Theological Seminary
09/08 to present
Position: Professor of Marriage and Family Therapy
Duties: Teaching and research connected with counseling and marriage and family.
Institution: West Texas A&M University, Canyon, TX
08/00 to 08/08
Position: Professor of Counseling
Duties: Teaching and research connected with counseling and marriage and family.
Institution: Amarillo College, Amarillo, TX
08/91 to 08/00
Position: Professor of Psychology
Duties: Teaching and research connected with psychology and marriage and family.
Institution: University of Mississippi, Oxford, MS
08/89 to 08/91
Position: Assistant Professor of Family Relations
Duties: Teaching and research connected with the fields of marriage and family, human sexuality, and human development.
Therapy Experience
Institution: Amarillo Family Institute, Inc., Amarillo, TX
08/95 to present
Position: LPC, LMFT, and partner
Duties: Counseling with families, couples and individuals.
Institution: Samaritan Counseling Center, Amarillo, TX
11/91 to 07/95
Position: Therapist
Duties: Counseling with families, couples and individuals.
Institution: Consulting and Counseling Inc., Fort Worth, TX
07/86 - 07/89
Position: Marriage and Family Therapist
Duties: Counseling with families, couples and individuals.
Other Experience
Institution: The Courtyards at River Park, Fort Worth, TX
01/87 - 05/89
Position: Director of Personal Care
Duties: Directed a sixty resident personal care facility. Responsible for compliance with state regulations, supervision of staff and family therapy research.
Institution: Amarillo College, Amarillo, TX
09/80 - 08/84
Position: Personnel Analyst
Duties: Administration of compensation plans and affirmative action.
License, Memberships, Honors and Associations
Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist, State of Texas, #000364
Licensed Professional Counselor, State of Texas, #10541
American Association for Marriage and Family Therapy, Clinical Member
American Counseling Association, Clinical Member
Texas Association for Marriage and Family Therapy, Past President
Amarillo Area Association for Marriage and Family Therapy, Member and Past President
Amarillo High School Sandie Hall of Fame, Member
Journal of the Texas Association for Marriage and Family Therapy, Editorial Board Member
Marriage and Family: A Christian Journal, Editorial Board Member
Journal of Marital and Family Therapy, Ad Hoc Reviewer
Journal of Family Systems and Health, Ad Hoc Reviewer
Journal of Gerontology, Ad Hoc Reviewer